Become Own Comforter

 

Accurate handling of life

Everyone at some point of time in their life tends to encounter hurtful events. A lot of us tend to blame the people around, circumstances, unavailability, and non-action by our loved ones.

According to my awareness, the issue starts there and then. The reason for the entire suffering is allocated to one of the reason according to the limited understanding. And we tend to sulk, build up resentment and carry things forward unknowingly.

Let's do a bit of dissection here :

Events are not in our hands. Of course there are people and circumstances which contribute to it. They definetely have the part to play into it. But that's their actions, their choices which we don't have control over.

But the poor understanding and handling of it make things worse and carrying it forward means carrying the wounds forward without treatment which will show up in the present in one way or the other.

What are unprocessed/unhealed wounds ? Wounds are basically carrying forward the poor understanding, poor handling and self generated harmful protective coping mechanism forward in the life.

These things tend to enhance, get complicated with passing age. In order to be 'normal' functioning human, these things need to addressed and handled with love and truth.

And the tricky part is that only person who can get these things done is 'you'.

When we get connected to divine energy (Maa Nirakara) and our focus tend to go towards our heart where our beloved mother/bhagwanji/guru resides.

Every human have got access to them, its just the voices in our heads tend to make it hard for us to hear our inner voice.

For intellectuals : The more supply we get of divine energy, it tends to quiet down those useless voices of our head. And when we start to listen to our original voice , we automatically tend to get the little truth and love from within acc to our capacity.

And that's when we start to see stuff which we never paid attention to and start to reset our functioning as a human. Automatically becoming comforter our own.

For devotees : The more we stay with our beloved mother, she tends to eat away all the monsterous thoughts which keep us from our own voice.

"She" starts to protect us, makes us taste what love is. It's not something that needs to be earned but she gives it freely without having to say anything.

We humans don't even know what we require or whats beneficial for us, we are given eyes slowly then she makes us recognize the truth in our own lifes. It's just like in childhood when parents teach us to recognize things and articulate words to it.

Exactly same thing, but she doesnt do our work. Instead its just showing and then the kid gets rid of it. When the kid gets rid of it, he/she feels so relaxed , happy, joyful which acts like a motivation to do more.

As the kid grows, she/he starts to understand the dynamic between parents within and the kid. The more understanding is developed, the more relaxed they start to get.

All these stupidity that goes around like inferiority, show offs, ignorance, domination, control, insecurity starts to go out. All of this is the result of poor handling, poor understanding of how they should operate as a human. Basically lack of presence of their mother in their life.

As they tend to get the presence of their mother in their life. Knowledge, love, comfort,truth,joy, accurate handling of themselves/life/relationships start acquiring place.

The difference between unconnected and connected ones is that connected ones have the opportunity to have 'love' in their life that means they can have Shri Mata Ji in their life.

If someone wants to witness the power of love. The way is to embark on inner journey within along with divine connection. There s no other way. The answer lies in experiencing it.

Jai Shri Mata Ji